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[jayda]

It's a rare relationship where both participants can deal successfully with a truly open relationship. Often one of the partners is bisexual and most likely it's more one sided with the male wanting to fuck around and the woman more likely to remain monogamous. Although I know two couples where the guys are monogamous and the girls are bi and both in a relationship with another woman. One of those other women are gay and in a relationship with another girl who is monogamous. There are always dramas. One week it's my male friend rethinking, next week it's the gay girl getting jealous of the husband and on and on it goes. All very well educated professional people! The other friends keep mostly to themselves about it but it's common knowledge. And in our circle of friends all of the guys think the two males are having the times of their lives being with bi women. In reality both guys are often miserable. Both women usually travel interstate to spend time with their other partners. I don't know where they get the energy to keep up with it! They have kids as well!

In the case of Ed and CT, guess we'll never know how it flows. I would probably find it humiliating if I were one of their wives. With them being in the public eye especially. Hasn't Erin been with Ed for a really long time as well?

All I can say is that I hope the girls are out having a good time! I wonder how well that would go down with Ed and CT?! Bet the girls are at home though doing the kid stuff and keeping the fire going.

[+Ed+]

Opine, true. I absolutely agree with you on the one hand, but on the other hand I have already posted all of my thoughts

Do not call me shortsighted, please, it is only my opinion, by which you can not really judge me as well. I am married for the second time and trust me, I never cheated on a wife. Not because I did not need it (and yes, in my previous relationship I did need it badly, it's a reflex you know) but because it would have been beneath my dignity.

This post has been edited by +Ed+: Jul 4 2012, 4:25 am

[jayda]

If she is free in her relationships and truly doesn't care that is another story, but it didn't sound that way by his answer.

I would call it whoredogging (sorry, my opinion) and to say that one can't judge because they've never been a man is kind of short sighted.
One needn't be a rock star or a celebrity OR a male to be propositioned frequently. How one acts on those propositions is what determines whether one is a pig or not. Male or female.
Now as I said, if CT's and Ed's wives are completely cool with it and not wishing it were different, then hey more power to all involved, go for it.

*don't misunderstand I'm not saying that people who are single and enjoy multiple sexual relationships are pigs, just the ones that are supposed to be in committed relationships.

I gotta agree with OC - women just know this stuff!

[+Ed+]

Hasn't Erin been with Ed for a really long time as well?

Since late 90s I guess

[+Ed+]

I must admit, I do not know how I would have felt, be my partner a bi, sleeping with other women.

Then again, you never know

[jayda]

I must admit, I do not know how I would have felt, be my partner a bi, sleeping with other women.

Then again, you never know

A fantasy for many guys although I think the guys want 'in' as well??!

[Opinechik]

Opine, true. I absolutely agree with you on the one hand, but on the other hand I have already posted all of my thoughts

Do not call me shortsighted, please, it is only my opinion, by which you can not really judge me as well. I am married for the second time and trust me, I never cheated on a wife. Not because I did not need it (and yes, in my previous relationship I did need it badly, it's a reflex you know) but because it would have been beneath my dignity.

I apologize Ed, short sighted wasn't really the correct term to use and comes off insultingly, which wasn't my intention. Again, I'm sorry.

I respect greatly that you divorced instead of cheating, that is how it should be, it's what I would want for myself. I could handle my husband saying it's over and moving on way better than I could if he stayed in the marriage and cheated on me.

[Opinechik]

Hasn't Erin been with Ed for a really long time as well?

Have you ever seen a pic of her? curious as all get out.

This post has been edited by Opinechik: Jul 4 2012, 4:48 am

[jayda]

Have you ever seen a pic of her? curious as all get out.

Yes! Attractive, all American type looks with brunette colored hair when she was younger. Last pic I saw she was blonde.

[jayda]

I think there were pics long time ago on CT's wife's Facebook. I'm on iPad and can't search well but I think you're master of searches

[Opinechik]

I think there were pics long time ago on CT's wife's Facebook. I'm on iPad and can't search well but I think you're master of searches

Finding a pic online of Ed's wife is turning out to be surprisingly harder than finding one of you know who.

[+Ed+]

A fantasy for many guys although I think the guys want 'in' as well??!

Not my story.

I apologize Ed, short sighted wasn't really the correct term to use and comes off insultingly, which wasn't my intention. Again, I'm sorry.

No probs

Have you ever seen a pic of her? curious as all get out.

And I am really curious to see a pic of you actually.

Here is a small one from Facebook. Totally not my type.

[jayda]

There you go! Good job Ed! She looks a bit older than the last pics I saw. Did I describe her well OC?

I had a quick search and instead came up with an interview I don't recall seeing on here so will go post it.

[Opinechik]

Not my story.
No probs
And I am really curious to see a pic of you actually.

Here is a small one from Facebook. Totally not my type.

Thank you!!! couldn't find a one of her.

This one of me somehow seems appropriate...because coffee will always have a special place here and we were talking about sluts/wd's :

[Opinechik]

There you go! Good job Ed! She looks a bit older than the last pics I saw. Did I describe her well OC?

I had a quick search and instead came up with an interview I don't recall seeing on here so will go post it.

Perfectly... she doesn't look like I imagined (before your description) I expected doll like, girly girly, made up.
She's very attractive, just in much more natural way.

This post has been edited by Opinechik: Jul 4 2012, 9:29 am